WHAT’S ON THE INSIDE?
Yesterday I was on a bus and this guy stepped in, my first thought was “oh, what a cute guy” then he spoke and my thought was “ewww, not so cute”.
There are well dressed people, with beautiful make-ups and expensive clothes, walking the streets with the most incredibly awful personalities. Sadly, we see what’s on the outside and not wait till they unveil their inside before we make conclusion, then later, when their true nature has been revealed, we feel deceived.
I don’t need to tell you that what people portray on the outside is rarely who they truly are, you know this for yourself, you have seen enough to understand that the girls with the perfect smile might have an ogre personality.
And that guy wearing a suit and getting up from chairs for elderly people might be a women-beating-coward. He might be the kind of man that will make your life a living hell and make you swear off men for the rest of your life.
Matter of fact, you have to watch well before you get in deep with anyone. It’s no secret that we can’t completely know anyone but at least make an attempt to see beyond his or her outward features.
I have seen it too much; I have heard too many stories of it to be comfortable. You see a girl who gave her heart to all the wrong men for so long then she wakes up one morning and decides to quit been so nice, now she transfer that aggression to every other man, the ones who have no idea what wrong she had allowed to be heaped on her.
Some men come around and say, “all women are the same” yes, you have met three or four women with likely personalities, have you wondered if there is something in you that attracts these women? Or maybe you concentrate too much on their outward looks and pay no attention to the signs they showed you in the beginning.
Like the way she talked to her parents, the way she addresses strangers or the way she just sits at home all day with no goal or ambition. Did you ever try to pay any attention to all that? No, you just saw her round waist and robust butt.
Well, all women are not the same, but yes, the world is flooded with vicious creatures, and these include both the male and female gender. But at least, look beyond the outside attributes.
And most importantly, don’t pour out the frustration from an old relationship onto the new one, if you are hurt from your last relationship then, pause, wait a while, before journeying onto the next one.
Don’t pour out negative energy into the dating world; you don’t have to be in a relationship every minute of your life. Rest, relax and then be the right person to the next person and if they can’t be that to you in return, let them go.
What’s on the inside is who you are, ignore the outside, some of them are just performing, they are perfect actors, who don’t need directors or scripts but if you are vigilant and patient, they will rear their ugly heads in little situations where they didn’t know that you were paying attention and you will see them for who they truly are. A beautiful personality or an ugly filthy inside…
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