MISERABLE IN LOVE
A relationship is about two people who come together and make each other’s life comfortable and not unbearable. There are a lot of things you can do on your own, you can pray, work, make money, eat, have fun and a lot others but you can’t keep yourself company.
We need a companion, and the presence of this companion shouldn’t cause agony, when the thought of the person comes into your mind, a cloud of joy should envelop your heart and immediately lighten up any burden you might be carrying.
Love is a beautiful thing but it’s not always warm and cuddling, still, let the blue season not be a constant. Life is short, we shouldn’t spend the little time we have being miserable.
If whenever your boyfriend/girlfriend is going out of town you feel relief, like “thank Jesus, make him still comot small, i tire” or when they are returning, you say in your heart “na wa ooo, she don still dey carry her own come again” then my dear, you are suffering in love and you are killing yourself for no reason.
Now, no relationship starts off sour, no one says “ah, see that babe, I hate her die I won friend her” or “see that guy, he dey irritate me, I won dey with am” it always starts off sweet and romantic before the veil of new romance goes off and their entire unbearable personality surface itself.
Dating is the trail run for marriage, anything a man or woman is before marriage will be magnified after marriage except of course they make a personal decision to take a different route after marriage, so, don’t get married to someone who you find unbearable in hopes that magic will happen once the ring slides into his or her fingers.
Don’t be an unhappy single lady or a sad bachelor and then, also become a miserable married person too, it could be lonely on the other side if your spouse isn’t your companion.
Whatever romantic relationship your are in now, don’t stay in it because you just want to endure, ask yourself, “how long can you endure?” and “how long have you been enduring”
Don’t let the fear of being alone cripple you in one excruciating spot, change your position, do the things that you can do on your own like praying, laughing, working, having fun and then wait for the right person who will love you and you too will love.
Don’t be in too much hurry to find the right person “wetin dem dey find dey hard to see” but once you stop looking, he or she will find you and my dear, you will finally be at ease.
Don’t be too worried about being single, because you are only going to be single once. Go have some fun, there is no embargo placed on it.
Work, live your life, and have some fun, I bet it’s better than being miserable in love…
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