ACCEPTANCE PT 1
A lot of things happen to us in this life, most of it we just accept as our fate, and once the word “fate” is mention; we stop arguing, we concur and simply conclude that there is nothing we can do to change it and that our efforts will be futile.
But if you accept every bad thing that happens to you as fate and you refuse to fight for what you want, then you will become the dumping ground for every trashy thing on the planet.
In this world, there is no place for the faint at heart, you have to be resilient in your fight, you have to stand fiercely and demand for what’s yours. If you cowardly accept everything that the world dumps on your feet, then you will remain weak and unproductive.
Acceptance is not realizing that you deserve better, acceptance is forgetting that you have a choice, but we always have a choice. Though, sometimes it may seem like you don’t.
It might be difficult and what you are faced with might make you feel so much pressure that it confuses you, or pushes you against the wall, but even when you’re pushed against a wall, you still have options, you can stay face to face with the wall or you can turn around and kick your adversary’s butt.
It’s never easy making the hard decisions but the decisions that give you better results aren’t supposed to be easy, if it’s easy then it’s not the right decision.
Quit being so understanding, life doesn’t say, “oh hey, he has had enough, let’s take it easy on him” nah, it doesn’t. It chews you up and spit you out like garbage.
Weakness is not accommodated, not even for a split second, and for every battle you face, you have the strength to stand and fight. The world is a mean and cruel place and it preys on the weak, if the slightest of weakness is found in you, you will become an experiment, a punching bag which is used as a testing ground.
There is an old adage which says, “A beggar has no choice” so are you a beggar? I’m sure you will be screaming “NO” so why are you accepting whatever the world is throwing at you?
Do you know what you want? Do you understand what you deserve? Then, what are you doing about it? What are your plans? Is it to sit down and take whatever is handed to you? Will you simply say “if it’s meant to be then it will happen?”
If you want something you have to work for it, make out a plan to get it, and follow it through. If that plan doesn’t work, make out another plan, there are twenty six alphabets, so if plan A is not a success then there is twenty five more to go, if that is not enough, then, you can put two alphabets together and don’t stop till you get it.
The point is; there is always a way, figure it out, put your mind to it, and work on it. Life is not a hand-out; it doesn’t just give you stuff simply because you said “please” everything in life demands something in return.
Figure out what you can offer in return, something you are good at and exchange it for what you want. There is something you are good at, God made sure of that…
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